The Shared Table
Dignity First
A monthly community gathering. No labels, no credentials, no performance, just humans sharing a table, conversation and whatever we have to offer each other.
October 2025 pilot
Proving the concept
"Everyone felt a sense of belonging so no one was left out. This gathering felt genuinely different from a charity event or a swap meet."
– Pilot attendee
What is Dignity First?
Dignity First is about reimagining community around who we are, not what we have or what labels we carry. In a world that feels more divided than ever, this is our experiment in interdependence and a reminder that we need each other.
It is a monthly community gathering where everyone shares a table not because of what you do, what you believe or what you can offer, but simply because you are human.
We share food, conversation and whatever we have: books, clothes, skills, time and presence. No performance. No networking. No hidden agenda. Just people being people.
What actually happens
Arrival & welcome
Come as you are. Food is ready and space is open. No formality, just warmth.
Share & connect
Brief introductions, then organic conversation. Games for those who want them.
The meal
Sharing a table and eating together breaks down barriers and opens space for real conversation.
Bring & share (optional)
Brought books, clothes or items to share? Great. Didn’t? Also great. Take what you need, leave what you can.
The need
Why Dignity First matters
Social isolation
We are more connected than ever, yet lonelier than ever. Unspoken systemic classism makes it difficult to meet people beyond our immediate circles or to genuinely understand one another’s experiences. Traditional community spaces often have membership barriers or require shared belief systems.
Cost of living
Many people need practical support, but formal and systemised services often carry stigma. Dignity First normalises mutual aid, where everyone both gives and receives.
Community fracture
Society is sorted into factions by politics, belief and class. Many times we have forgotten how to be human together without labels dividing us.
Our approach
Dignity First is about removing those barriers. We want to create spaces that make belonging accessible to everyone. No membership required. No faith criteria. No means testing. No performance expected. You are welcome at the table simply because you are human. It is an audacious idea but one worth believing in.
This is not charity. It is mutual aid and relationship building. It is not networking. It is genuine community.
Impact
What Dignity First achieves
Reduces social isolation
Creates regular, accessible opportunities for genuine connection across diverse demographics. Particularly impactful for people who don't fit traditional community groups.
Practical mutual aid
Addresses cost of living pressures through resource sharing such as clothing, books and food. Normalises asking for and offering help without stigma.
Community cohesion
Builds cross cultural, cross generational and cross class connections. Challenges social segregation by creating shared spaces where everyone is equal.
Preventative mental health
Regular belonging experiences prevent crisis escalation. Informal peer support networks develop naturally. Low barrier entry point for people who would not access formal services.
Strengthens local economies
Runs intentionally within community centred spaces such as Orchard Square Food Hall, creating mutual visibility and support. Events draw people into local hubs and food is sourced from nearby businesses, boosting small enterprises while building community connection.
Join the next gathering
Sunday, 16 November 2025 | 5:00–7:00 PM | Sheffield Plate, Orchard Square
I want to fund this
Help us continue running monthly gatherings and expand to other locations.
Get in touchI want to partner
Councils, venues or organisations wanting to host Dignity First locally.
Explore partnershipResources for funders and partners — please contact us for details
Common questions
Do I need to RSVP?
Preferably, let us know in advance so we can set enough chairs. You can get a free ticket on Eventbrite or send us a text on 07780 622362. Walk-ins are absolutely welcome — do come even if you haven’t RSVP’d.
Is there a cost?
Completely free. We’ve chosen to make this event free to remove any barrier of affordability. Food is provided. If you’d like to donate or contribute towards the next gathering, feel free to contact us — but it is neither expected nor required.
Can I bring my kids?
Yes. Kids are welcome. We have games and activities for them. Our pilot had nine children and it worked beautifully.
Should I bring something to share?
If you'd like, bring books, clothes or food (mindful of allergies). But coming empty handed is absolutely fine too — you are the gift.
Is this a Christian thing?
Dignity First is inspired by Christian values, but it is not a faith gathering and faith is not required to attend. There is no religious content, no evangelism and no expectations — it is genuinely open to everyone.
What if I'm anxious about coming alone?
That's completely normal. Text us on 07780 622362 when you arrive and we will make sure you are welcomed in. Most people come alone and leave having made new connections.